Each for its own

Got the job?? oh haven't..??
What about the further study plan..?? hasn't worked out yet..??
I heard you were going abroad,didn't you go..??
hey,was sup..whats been happening....!!

The endless list of random questions we ask our friends,so called friends or at some random times even from those we meet for the first time...
Why is it so,that each one is so bothered about the soul next to him/her..??
Out of the pages of names who ask same sets of questions,there are hardly 2 or 3..or at the most 5-7,who are concerned actually...like real ACTUALLY..because they are your real,well wishers...for rest..its only about where are they standing "as compared to" so and so...each one wants to be at the top..each one wants to pull the other down...And mind you,those 5-7 people who are actually bothered are either not from your field of work plus are closest of all..or they are the family member's(even by force family members cannot think ill about you)

The Darwin theory of Survival Of Fittest is so very true,that it is applied at all possible fields of life..
As many other millions n zillions of things which i fail to understand,even this is something which becomes a question in itself,every time somebody asks me-so what next...!!
I always thought nobody is going to pay for my survival,I'll have to earn a living myself to live on blue planet...then why this question,by all kinds of random people..by telling them that i am not doing anything great,does it help them feel better..?? or do they feel pity for me..??
And this is the precise thing,why do you need to bother..??

Ask me how have i been..?? do i workout..?? do i play outdoor games..?? in what am i actually interested...put the question-if i weren't to worry about the money for my survival,what would i be doing then..??
Many think and some strongly believe that i love travelling...yes i do..some think,i love exploring something new,next set is confirmed about my liking towards photography...then why don't they ask things related to these..?? like what interests me in photography..?? whats there in books which make me read some genre and puke on other genre...??

God has sent us all,he is super master..he must have planned something for us..whats the need of your botheration..?? make your own efforts,do great in life..wish the same for others without that analytical view point...

for once,change the pattern of your gaining information about somebody,you'll observe,there's always more than just marks,degree's,job,salary in every body's life..and let each live for his/her own...!!

(And of course even i need to follow the same..lets see if things and life as whole changes,becomes brighter or not...)

P.S This is the first entry,which is not at all in sms text language...